People say that HappYnesS is a choice; however, it’s the Path we choose that creates it. Most people don’t realize the choices they make today affect the Path of their future. This includes everything we choose to consume: foods, personal care, household cleaners, medicine, entertainment, thoughts, and literally everything. We don’t realize that some of the choices we make are in direct contradiction to our Path to HappYnesS. We may “realize” it, but I don’t think we realize the energy it creates that ripples out into the universe.
In order to understand how we veer off Path, it’s important to understand what that Path is. Have you ever asked yourself, “What really makes me Happy?” And if you ask yourself that, and then get that thing or experience or whatever it is, are you Happy? Maybe momentarily, but why do these bouts of HappYnesS dissipate? What gets in the way of our Path that steers it in a different direction?
Alignment is everything. “When what we say, what we believe, and what we do are in full alignment, that is true happiness.” That is a summary of a quote from Gandhi, but he said harmony instead of happiness, but it’s absolutely accurate. I will call it “The Rule of Three”. Take a step back and really think about it. Let’s use a general example of “Be Kind”. What does that mean? Be kind to animals, humans, what exactly? And if a kind world would be part of our Path to HappYnesS, then how are we partaking or not in that journey? Are we kind to ourselves? Do we think kindly of others? Family? People on the news? Really get real with yourself and ask. I mean, we are only human, so it’s ok if the answer is no. But what is important to proccess that observation is accountability: Accountability for our choices on our thoughts and feelings. We always like to say things like, “They made me angry”, “I don’t deserve that.”, “How dare they?” “I don’t need to be kind to them.” Whatever excuse comes to mind is what we need to take ownership of. We are literally giving our power away by allowing ourselves to be triggered and fall off the “Path of Kindness.” The reality is, we are not always kind, and it’s the ability to self-regulate, improve, and make better choices that will be in alignment with that Path of Kindness. Being kind and forgiving with others and ourselves will follow The Rule of Three.
“Be Honest” is another one we have to dive deeper into. We think, “If only people, corporations, news, government, etc… were honest, this world would be a happier place.” Ok. Are we always honest? Honest with ourselves? Sometimes it’s hard to know we’re not being honest because we are caught in the moment with our feelings. We tend to find ways to justify what we say, believe, or do based on what others say, believe, or do. Does this feel authentic? Does this feel in alignment with honesty, integrity, and kindness? How many excuses and blames do we have to come up with before we realize the only person affected by the choices we are making is us? How much stress do we have to put our minds and bodies through before we realize we are not choosing happiness, kindness, or honesty? These are patterns and programs that run so deeply in our subconscious mind and literally run our lives. If we are not mindful and take full responsibility and accountability for our reactions and feelings, then the cycle will continue to circle around and things will never change despite what you “think” you are doing. Well, it’s not doing, it’s being. Only we chose how we are showing up, and no one makes us do a thing.
Our souls know deep down what is right and what is wrong. When we go against what is “right,” it greatly decreases our vitality. It’s a low vibration; it goes against our natural laws as humans, and we feel not so great. This can cause us to be sad, mad, confused, angry, or even manifest into a physical illness. It has been proven that energy that does not get moved or processed through the body will remain stuck and create emotional and or physical dis-ease. Our body is so smart that it will show us how out of alignment we really are when we are too emotional to see it. It is important to always take a step back and ask ourselves what we did to contribute to an outcome. What emotions, thoughts, and feelings did we signal out for something to come back in that form?
People don’t like it when I say that. In fact, I don’t even like it because it means it’s true for me too, and I don’t always like those moments of reflection. However, without those, we do not change. This is why the Path stays the same and we can’t find our way back to HappYnesS. The only true way to find HappYnesS is to live in full alignment with our beliefs every and all day. And when we aren’t, the ability to recognize that and change the Path is ultimately what will create the new exciting things in our Path that we may not have even thought were possible. All we have to do is live authentically, and the rest takes care of itself. Sounds easy, right? Well, first we have to choose to live in our truth, which is not the easy part. The Path to HappYnesS is actually a very clear Path, we just put all these obstacles in the way and sometimes don’t even realize it.
Well, I have made the Path a little bit easier to see and follow. I have also realized that we need to recognize what the blocks and challenges are that we create or that “get in the way.” If you would like to receive a FREE PDF to help you map out your Path to HappYnesS and potential blocks, just email me and I will be happy to send it over to you with clear instructions on how to fill it out and how to get clear on your Path to HappYnesS. Email: Rise@GiovannaRose.com
Remember, there’s no wrong path, just longer ones. The Path to HappyNesS is clear once you get honest with yourself. So, take this journey and unlock your Path!
Happy Healing! ✨🌟✨
Giovanna Rose 🌹
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